‘Where Everyone’s Voice Matters’

Naomi Tovar discovers the beauty and freedom that comes with being yourself and leading others as part of a Life Group

As a sophomore psychology major, I’ve had the unique experience of being both a participant in Life Groups and, more recently, a co-leader. Looking back, I can see how important it was for me to find a community where I felt understood – especially among other Latino students – and how much I’ve grown since joining a Life Group at George Fox.

Before coming to Fox, my experience with Latino groups was mostly through my parents. There were always adults present, and while they offered warmth, I never really had peers to talk to. Meanwhile, in youth groups, I often felt out of place. I was quiet, unsure of myself, and struggled to find my voice. The environment didn’t create space for someone like me to feel included, so it had been years since I had joined a group with people my age. I finally joined one in my freshmen year, and that first experience was a positive one. But I remember wishing I could engage more actively – or even help guide the discussions.

This year, I made a huge change by joining the spiritual life office as an intern. One of my first responsibilities was choosing a group to help co-lead. Leading wasn’t required, but something in me knew I needed to take this step – not just to challenge myself, but to finally experience the kind of community I had always hoped for. I chose to help co-lead a Latino Life Group, where we focused on the parables, and immediately something felt different. I didn’t feel pressure to become someone louder or more outgoing. I could simply be myself.

A big part of that came from the leadership of Cyndi Murillo, university pastor for spiritual formation programs, and Karla Chan Mendez, director of first generation student success. They created an environment where everyone’s voice mattered – not just the most outspoken or confident people. They emphasized small-group discussions, meaningful icebreakers, and shared participation. Cyndi offered me thoughtful feedback before I led and even invited my input, which helped me see myself as someone capable of guiding others.

For the first time I felt genuinely valued, not only as a member of the group, but as someone others trusted. My peers respected me and gave me the space to lead, and that experience strengthened me in ways I didn’t expect. As a Latina student who once felt unseen in faith communities, finding a group where I could show up fully as myself has meant more than I can express.

Being part of this Life Group and helping to lead it has broadened my confidence, deepened my relationships, and allowed me to walk alongside other Latino students who may be searching for the same sense of belonging I once longed for. My hope is that I helped to create a space where they felt free to grow, have fun, and connect more deeply with God, especially in times when we all need support.

If you’re looking for a way to connect more deeply with your peers and mentors, I highly recommend you join a Life Group – or perhaps even lead one! You never know how much you’ll grow, both relationally and spiritually, unless you do.